Distance is “countable” love is not. Therefore, there will always be more love than distance. Sorry. That particular logic was incorrect but the general idea is all good :P
“Whenever you smile I can hardly believe that you’re mine”
Unbreakable - Westlife
Hug her when she’s hurt.
Pick her up when she falls.
Hold her a little more than YOU might think she needs.
Listen like tomorrow were your last day with her.
Build your love together one compliment at a time.
Be there when you say you will and for as long as you said you would.
Be her best friend.
Be slow to anger and quick to forgive.
Make her feel as if the only place you want to be is wherever she is
Your Soul Mate, is an entirely different animal than your best friend.
As I grow older, I recognize more and more marriages are based on mutual friendship…and really there is nothing in the world wrong with that…but in the heart of almost everyone beats a desire for a connection to this almost mythical Soul Mate.
Your best friend is someone you can talk to, but when you look in their eyes, you can’t see their soul like you can with your Soul Mate. It doesn’t mean you can’t have fun, get along great, be great parents together, and share a wonderfully fulfilling life together…but in my opinion, there will always be this longing for something more.
Your Soul Mate can look at you. And you. Just. Know.
It is the ultimate expression of love. The act of saying nothing, yet saying everything at the same time. It is a confirmation and validation of your spirit. The real you. Not the you covered with skin that withers and fades and wrinkles. The you that is vibrant at any age because your spirit, your soul, that thing that dances when you look at them and they look at you…that is it. That is the elusive thing that we all desire and few seem to experience.
Am I saying you should hold out for that? At the risk of sounding overly precise about a thing that is as random as a look from across a crowded room or a chance encounter on a day when you just happen to be…
Yes. I am.
There is nothing more fulfilling than that. I promise. Being intertwined with someone on that level is almost indescribable, but it exists. It doesn’t mean your life will be perfect with this person. It doesn’t mean you won’t have ups and downs, because we all do. What it means is…you will always have this life, this place, this feeling, this peace, this centeredness, that says, “I am, because you are”.
That look: it exists. Hold out for it and hold onto it <3
I wanted to post this last night but it wasn’t working.
Makin Love Real - Greg Hanna
Wake up in the morning, just like everyone else
Brush your teeth and eat breakfast and get dressed, just like everyone else
Go to work and enjoy it (or not) just as much as everyone else
Come home from work, just like everyone else
If/When you do not have to work, proceed beyond those two steps and enter the one which follows this, just like everyone else
Spend the rest of your days doing things you enjoy and/or spending time with your friends/family, just like everyone else
Eventually get yourself ready for bed and try to sleep, just like everyone else.
The difference?
because I am addicted to Blake Shelton, regardless of what he’s singing, but I loved this song before he got a hold of it!
I won’t be around tonight, bye. = Elizabeth worries forever, thinking something is drastically wrong when it’s probably just you having something better to do.
Day 3: Your Locations
Suffice it to say I’m in Canada and he is 4000 or so Kms away
Day 2: Your Ages
We are both 20
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